Peer-reviewed article
Exploring Parent–Child Relationships in Alienated versus Neglected/Emotionally Abused Children using the Bene‐Anthony Family Relations Test
Nigel Blagg, Eva Godfrey ·
Summary
Written by AI, not yet AICS's view · claude-haiku-4-5-20251001This study compared how children experiencing parental alienation differ psychologically from children who are neglected or emotionally abused, using a family relations assessment tool. Alienated children showed psychological splitting, idealizing one parent and rejecting the other without valid reason, while neglected or abused children showed more mixed feelings toward both parents despite their mistreatment. The research highlights that children's stated preferences about their parents may not reflect their true needs, and comprehensive psychological assessment is necessary to understand what is actually in a child's best interest.
Key points
- Alienated children engaged in psychological splitting, idealising their preferred parent and demonising their target parent without legitimate justification
- Neglected/emotionally abused children presented with greater ambivalence, sending both positive and negative messages to both parents
- Children's expressed wishes about their parents are paradoxical in cases of both alienation and neglect/emotional abuse
- The Bene-Anthony Family Relations Test is presented as a valuable clinical tool for exploring children's feelings about family relationships
- Assessments need to identify children's ascertainable rather than expressed wishes through comprehensive multimodal psychological evaluation
Limitations
The document does not specify sample size, geographic location, age range of children studied, or longitudinal follow-up data. It is unclear whether the findings are generalizable across different cultural contexts or whether the study employed a comparison group design.
Abstract
Children subject to parental alienation dynamics often present with psychological splitting and lack the ambivalence towards their parents which can be observed in other groups of children, even those who are emotionally abused and neglected. This paper used the Bene‐Anthony Family Relations Test to explore differences between alienated and neglected/emotionally abused children's views and feelings towards their mothers and fathers. Results confirmed that alienated children engaged in splitting, idealising their preferred parent and demonising their target parent without legitimate justification. Conversely, neglected/emotionally abused children presented with greater ambivalence, sending both positive and negative messages to their mothers and fathers; although overall in this study, they displayed a tendency to idealise their parents despite the maltreatment that they had suffered. The results highlight the importance of not taking children's expressed wishes at face value and the need for in‐depth multimodal psychological assessments to establish children's ascertainable rather than expressed wishes. ‘Explore[s] differences between alienated and neglected/emotionally abused children's views and feelings towards their mothers and fathers’ Key Practitioner Messages The Bene‐Anthony Family Relations Test is an invaluable clinical tool for exploring children's feelings about their family relationships. Children's expressed wishes about their parents are paradoxical in cases of both alienation and neglect/emotional abuse. Assessments of children need to identify their ascertainable rather than expressed wishes. This requires a comprehensive multimodal psychological assessment involving all family members, cross‐referencing information from all sources from a longitudinal perspective.